Tatiana Khodakova
As soon as you decide what you want, as soon as you are confident in your desire, life WILL THROW you a “test”. This will be a TEST for you.
For example, a girl decides that she will definitely quit her job, because she can no longer tolerate disrespectful behavior from her boss, constant shouting, overtime – all this is not about her. She has finally decided that this does not suit her, that it is destroying her as a person.
As soon as she decides this and confirms her desire to not work in such conditions for a minute more and writes a notice of resignation, the boss offers a 50% increase in salary. Here the girl will most likely doubt – this is a TEST.
Yes, 50% is a lot, these are new financial opportunities. However, by agreeing to the boss’s offer now, she WILL SHOW herself and the world that she AGREES to a DISRESPECTFUL attitude. She AGREES to this, the question was only about the PRICE. She was not ready to tolerate bullying for little money, but she WAS READY to tolerate it for more. The choice in this case will determine what ATTITUDE SHE ACCEPTA from others and the world.
Life always gives such tests in everything. As soon as you decide something for yourself and introduce a NEW NORM, a new rule for yourself – wait for the TEST. It’s like at school: you covered new material, learned something new, and now take a test – let’s see how much you have learned the material, whether you have FILED it in your CONSCIOUSNESS.
But if the girl, despite the lucrative offer, refuses in favor of RESPECT for herself, she will pass the test with an “excellent” mark. And she will easily find a highly paid job with excellent conditions. How? It will simply happen.
The Universe is friendly, you just have to start positive CHANGES in your CONSCIOUSNESS. The girl had a bad job because she agreed to it, because she CHOSE it. Now that she is in her field, in her space, agreeing only to the best, the option to take an uncomfortable job is simply out of her field of vision. She does not see it, she does not choose it. That is how it WORKS.
Photo by Anita Jankovic
Translated by Maria Zayats
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