This year has honestly been an amazing year and there were so many things that happened, things that I went through, lessons I learned, learned how to let people go and except new people in my life, learned how to accept new experiences and new begginings. There were so many situations that changed the way I feel about things, the way I seethings differently. I definetily saw myself growing up and changing the way I feel about things .
This wont be a post about my accomplisments this year or anything like this. I just want to make it and write about some things that I learned for myself, and I think theese things comes to every single person day by day.
One thing that I learned this year is that “when it needs to come it will come”. This qoute has to do with so many things and you can take it into consideration of many different situation or problems in your life. But I experienced it in a way that sadly did hurt me for sometime because I had to learn how to let go and except the fact that things will come at their own time. And sometimes things come at the wrong time to show you how something is wrong and is not supposed to be like this.
The second and most important thing that I learned, and I consider it important because this habit used to bother me a lot and it used to take up so much of my energy is to “let go people easily”. This used to be my number 1 thing in my life that used to bring me down, make me sad and wonder why is this happening to me. But after a bunch of situations that happened this year I only recently realized that suddenly I don’t seem to care if someone decides to walk away from my life. I just let them go, because maybe this is for the best, maybe the person is not meant to be in my life and its better for us to be apart. So don’t be scared to let people go, let it be, it is what it is. You cant just sit and wait and wonder why did something happen the way it happened. The best thing to do is find the power in yourself to let it go.
“Be happy with yourself” this is the third thing that I learned this year for sure. Being happy with yourself is the key to live in a harmony with yourself and with the people around you. Believe me so many things change when you are happy with yourself, when you are happy with what you are doing, when you are happy with whats happening in your life around you. People tend to like people that are happy with themselves because they bring good and positive vibes and energy.
“Do what you feel is right, do what your gut tells you”. Don’t listen to others if your heart tells you that you clearly want to do something specific, if you want to take a specific acction and people are telling you to do something else but your hearts tells you that you want to take a differenct action, listen to yourself and do what you think is right because then your going to regret it so much and your going to blame yourself for not doing what you felt was right to do.
There are so many other things that I can write about but these 4 things are the main 4 things that I think are the most important that happened this year.
This year is sadly coming to an end but honestly I want to thank every single person who was with me this year, who held my hand when it was hard and ofcourse this year had a lot of new opening and new oppertunities.